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SUCCESS - In Flip Flops!
At 51 years old, Yusuf Dikeç, an air pistol shooter, finally stood on the Olympic podium with a silver medal.  This triumph wasn’t a...
Shawnee Harle
Aug 24, 20242 min read
I'm TIRED of Goals
"3-1. So incredibly proud of this team." "Team went a dismal 3-5 this weekend." "Gotta brag on my kid. 3 goals today." "Lost by 4. Not...
Shawnee Harle
Jan 22, 20241 min read


STOP Relying on Motivation
"What's the most important Mental Toughness skill?" Great question and it's one I'm often asked. I'm a 2x Olympian and Mental Tougness...
Shawnee Harle
Dec 4, 20231 min read


STOP the Negative Self-Talk
STOP taking pride in being hard on yourself. It decreases performance It decreases confidence It decreases self-esteem Here's the good...
Shawnee Harle
Nov 2, 20231 min read


Goals vs Values. What's the difference, why does it matter?
FOR ATHLETES: Athletes have a difficult time separating who they are from what they do. And it can negatively impact self-esteem. I'm a...
Shawnee Harle
Jun 25, 20231 min read

4 Traits of High Performers
As a Mental Toughness Coach, I've worked with hundreds of athletes, from youth to Olympians. High Performers are that way for a reason....
Shawnee Harle
Jan 8, 20231 min read

Train Your Brain
If you do what you have ALWAYS DONE, you get what you ALREADY HAVE. What's the cost for your kids/athletes if they keep doing the same...
Shawnee Harle
Nov 30, 20221 min read


Train Your Brain
Think that more physical training is the only way to improve? Think again. When you get a work-out done to improve your strength and...
Shawnee Harle
Nov 22, 20221 min read

What causes pressure?
Fear causes pressure; fear of an undesirable outcome. Athletes fear many things: losing, looking bad, making mistakes, getting cut from...
Shawnee Harle
Nov 11, 20221 min read


Focusing vs Noticing
What's the difference between focusing and noticing? Focusing doesn't always provide the right answers. What if you are focusing on the...
Shawnee Harle
Oct 31, 20221 min read


Ready vs Prepared
Is there a difference between being ready and being prepared? I think so. I'm a Mental Toughness Coach and athletes often tell me, "I'm...
Shawnee Harle
Oct 31, 20221 min read


We are just like tacos.
Mental Toughness isn’t necessarily about being tough. It’s about facing the truth. That’s tough to do; perhaps Mental Toughness is the...
Shawnee Harle
Oct 31, 20221 min read


Are you sharp enough?
You know what really bugs me? Comparison. Why? Because it not only kills creativity, it also kills joy. Sport is often full of comparison...
Shawnee Harle
Oct 31, 20221 min read


Grit vs Grind
What's the difference between Grit and Grind? According to Dr. Brene Brown, grit is internally focused while grind is externally focused....
Shawnee Harle
Oct 31, 20221 min read

Anger: Good or Bad?
What's the difference between good anger and bad anger? Most athletes tell me, "My coaches and my parents say I'm not supposed to get...
Shawnee Harle
Oct 31, 20221 min read


Face the Truth
Ready to face the truth? There are two of them: 1) You might get what you want. 2) You might not. Sport teaches us NOT to face the...
Shawnee Harle
Oct 31, 20221 min read


No more excuses!
How can we be mentally tough when we are full of excuses? WE CAN'T! Excuses are the path of least resistance. They are our protection...
Shawnee Harle
Oct 31, 20221 min read


NOT The Boss of Your Thoughts
Negative self-talk takes you AWAY FROM YOUR GREATEST SELF. You don't get to have negative thoughts for free. They come with a cost. They...
Shawnee Harle
Oct 31, 20221 min read


Boss of Your Thoughts
Positive self-talk takes you TOWARD YOUR GREATEST SELF. These thoughts come with a reward. You become THE BOSS of your thoughts rather...
Shawnee Harle
Oct 31, 20221 min read


Train Your Brain
If you do what you've ALWAYS DONE, you get what you ALREADY HAVE. You have already invested in more: skill sessions, private coaching,...
Shawnee Harle
Oct 31, 20221 min read
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