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Imperfection is Normal
STOP expecting your kids/athletes to play to their potential every time. Learning is full of ups and downs. Growth requires hardships and...
Shawnee Harle
Aug 29, 20231 min read


Mistakes bringing you down? Causing too much noise in your head? Time to SHIFT!
The other day I was playing a very competitive game of pickle ball. My teammate and my opponents were REALLY good. I'm pretty good too...
Shawnee Harle
Jun 17, 20232 min read

No more hissy-fits!
I've said it before and I'm going to say it again: STOP HAVING HISSY-FITS WHEN MISTAKES ARE MADE! Coaches sound like this: "We just...
Shawnee Harle
Dec 2, 20221 min read

Mistakes are Normal
Why do: Athletes fear mistakes? Coaches have hissy-fits when their athletes make mistakes? Parents roll their eyes when their kid makes a...
Shawnee Harle
Nov 8, 20221 min read
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